thoughts of sweet memories

shared by Marlo R. Beall, her sister

Happy 38th Birthday Cindy!

To celebrate Cindy's birthday, we hosted a joyful cousin gathering at our house. Much like Cindy's Heaven Anniversary in April of this year, we asked cousins to join us for a family game night.

We didn't play as many board games this time around, but we ended up watching the Warriors game instead. As a basketball player and fan, Cindy wouldn't have minded the minor shift in the evening's festivities.

A new activity that we incorporated this year was cupcake decorating. Earlier in the day, Ava and I baked a few dozen cupcakes and mini cupcakes, in chocolate fudge and fun-fetti flavors. Carla took the lead on frosting them, and cousins took turns decorating them. Below are a few examples of some of the fun creations.

As we wrapped up our evening, I was touched by how many family members had taken the time to specifically remember Cindy today. Even those cousins who couldn't join us sent heartfelt texts about how they were thinking of Cindy, had gone to mass, or visited the cemetery.

I also reflected on how much our family has grown throughout the years, adding more kids and welcoming new spouses and significant others. It's amazing to know that there are so many more people who are learning about Cindy, through her family and friends; and everyone's thoughtfulness just continues to keep her memory alive and strong.

thoughts of remember me

shared by Marlo R. Beall, her sister

I've been lucky enough to have seen the newest Pixar movie, Coco, three times already. And each time, I've cried during it's most touching moments. Coco is a heartfelt movie about the value of family, and the importance of keeping the memories of your deceased family members alive.

Naturally, the movie reminded me of Cindy. It actually made me think of all my dearly departed loved ones, and how I missed having them in my life. Although Coco made my cry, it was also reassuring to feel that Cindy was in a better place; and wherever she is, she is still surrounded by those who love her.

thoughts of puppy love

shared by Marlo R. Beall, her sister

Last Saturday, our family adopted a dog. Ava has been asking for a dog to join our family since she could talk, and we were lucky enough to find a sweet, mellow, adorable dog named Fiona at the Alameda Animal Shelter. She is the perfect fit for us.

Considering how perfect a match Fiona is for our family, I am certain that Cindy had a hand in bringing Fiona into our lives. Much like Nanook was Cindy's dog, Fiona is especially connected to Ava; they're like two peas in a pod.

In many ways, having a family dog is another way to keep Cindy's memory alive everyday.